bf was lucky to have me. I am very attractive college educated girl and he was kind of blue collar guy, but I love him. I seem to always get needy in a relationshp and lose interested in hanging out with others and I insecure, feeling like he doesn't love me as much, get upset when he wants to go out, feel abandoned, i was wondering if anyone had advice or any books are on teh subject. thanks.
Book- codependent no more
men dont like needy girls. give him some space. find a hobby or something. go out with ur friends and have fun. trust me when he sees that u r okay with the space he will tend to be needy towards u. but not too needy cuz men dont like that. thats one reason y i got a divorce cuz my ex couldnt tie her own shoe with out me. everytime she tooka shower i had to come in there and sit on the toliet for ever it seems and just sit and wait. while she took a shower. at first I thought it was cute but after a while i just wanted to be like ahhhhhhh! LOL no neddiness.we do not like it.
Hmmm...what's wrong with blue collar guys? They're sexy as all get out. Sounds like you might think you're a little above him, and maybe your jealousy is driving him away.
Healing Your Insecurities by Dr. Roy Hicks
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